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I haven't seen my husband in 6 years since he travelled out. I'm tired of waiting. Should I remarry?

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"I got married in 2006. A year later in 2007, my husband relocated to the US. The plan was for him to settle there and then bring myself and our only son to join him. It's been six long years and he has been giving us serious of excuses. He confessed that he married a white woman there but only to get his papers but I later found out he was living with this woman. When I called him a few months ago I heard a child crying at the background, so I'm suspecting they also have a child together though he says the child is the lady's child and not his. I don't believe him. I have no way of finding out the truth because I have no one in the US to help me investigate. He has only returned home once since he traveled and this was in 2010. I feel like I'm wasting my life waiting for him especially now that I met someone else who wants to marry me and take care of my son. I'm not divorced from my husband so marrying another man would be illegal. When I su

True life story: I'm a Muslim and I wish I can marry more than 1 husband - Zainab

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"Hi, my name is Zainab, 26yrs old, single and I live in Gwagwalada. I'm a Muslim to the core. But religion and culture has moulded our lifestyles that we have to adapt and adhere to religion and cultural beliefs. As a woman and a Muslim who is bound to marry one man unlike marrying more than a woman, I feel sometimes women could marry more than one man too. I'm the kind of person that is attracted to men, I find myself liking more than one man or loving them and I feel like I wish I can have them, so instead of cheating, I just wish it's possible for me to marry more than a man. Our religion and culture though, I feel bad I can't have men I like and marry them." Please share your thoughts.

LET'S END THIS ARGUMENT ONCE AND FOR ALL: Between Kim and Mercy, Who is the Most Beautiful

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Majority of people have speculated that KIMOPRAH,...oh wait! Let me take you back. KIMOPRAH and Mercy were housemates of last Big Brother Naija Show season 4, PEPPERDEM. That is the last season. Kimoprah Unfortunately at the time, was evicted after 2 weeks in the show. And as you know and if you didn't also know, the season Mercy Eke won. Kim hasn't stopped doing well for herself outside the show, she's been doing so well, getting endorsed and getting gigs. For someone who left the show early and still talked about, she is really a girl with a great personality. Let's not forget she's a model. Bringing you back to the gist, it has been speculated by many that Kim is the most beautiful girl amongst all the ex housemates from See Gobe to Double wahala to Pepperdem. While some argued that Mercy for Pepperdem is the most beautiful. Over to you, let's settle this, Kim or Mercy for Beauty?